Rob raises an excellent question: Have we done this before? His question also logically leads to a follow-on: Why is John insisting we do this?
Have we done this before?
Yes, we voted to expel Ms. Giacomo in May of 2023. Before that, I’m not sure if we ever expelled anyone in accordance with our bylaws. Maybe Bill will remember if there was an instance from our early days. I could also ask long-time president Joyce Faulkner.
Why am I so adamant that we do this?
The simple answer is that it’ll come back to haunt us if we don't.
Perhaps more important than expelling a member is ensuring that we have a system to document inappropriate behavior on the part of any MWSA member so that we have a written record.
Here are a few examples of which I’m aware involving MWSA members who:
Repeatedly impugned the character and integrity of individual MWSA volunteers.
The proverbial nail in Ms. Giacomo’s coffin was her repeated comment regarding Betsy’s gold star mother status: “My response to her was everyone has those kind of stories, and they do.” [sic]
Can you imagine how Betsy felt reading this revolting comment twice?
Sexually harassed a female MWSA member during a conference in Pittsburgh. Because this happened well over ten years ago (2010?), I can’t remember his name. As far as I know, the incident wasn’t documented anywhere (at least where it’s easy to find).
I was present when this person made inappropriate remarks to another attendee in one of our breakout rooms. I don’t remember his exact words, but I remember being shocked when he dismissed another person's contributions, saying something like, “Don’t you worry your pretty little head lady.”
If memory serves, he later made vulgar remarks to other women and did some inappropriate touching of another conference attendee. I have no direct evidence corroborating these allegations.
Drunkenly interrupted an awards banquet by standing in the back of the banquet hall and yelling that since he was the only person who had submitted a book in his genre, he should have won a gold medal (rather than the “Honorable Mention” he was awarded). Our then-president had to physically escort this person out of the hotel. I can’t remember the name of this disruptive member because it wasn’t documented anywhere (as far as I know).
Had repeated verbal altercations with several other MWSA members. Informal complaints were shared, but no record was kept. This person subsequently volunteered to serve on our board, but his name was withdrawn from consideration when his history was revealed by someone who remembered the complaints about his abrasive personality.
I have no intention of allowing the MWSA board to become a “star chamber” expelling members willy-nilly. Nor should we be in the business of sharing unsubstantiated rumors regarding any member’s behavior. However, I imagine we can all agree that all the above examples should be documented and that at least the first two qualify for expulsion as outlined in our bylaws. The documentation should be completed immediately after the fact and stored electronically where we can easily find it. Otherwise, we must rely on our memories from 10-15 years ago. This record-keeping is vital for our membership secretary—our first line of defense!
Action Required
Formalize system for tracking membership problems.