MWSA Review

When We Are Apart, written by Becca Johnsey and illustrated by Marižan, is a picture book catering to children who face emotional challenges when a parent leaves on a business trip.

Written in rhymes, the book's musicality reminds readers of nursery tales that are meant to soothe and reassure, two important goals when it comes to narrate a story in which the main character is displaying emotional struggles because of the sudden changes within the family dynamics.

The narrator (a mother) offers her child suggestions on how to calm down: deep breathing through the nose, counting to ten, and eating a healthy and balanced meal. Hugs, of course, help too!

The illustrations do a good job in supporting the narration, properly conveying emotions, and keeping young readers' attention. Colors are vivid and the pages are not too crowded with unnecessary details.

Though the story is based on the author's personal experience, at the end of the book parents and guardians find a "Four Activities to Try Together" page where the author offers suggestions on what to do to help children cope when a parent is away on business.

Review by Brunella Costagliola (March 2023)

Author's Synopsis

Each night after school, your dad tucks you in tight. He reads about trucks, turns on your night light. But sometimes for work, your daddy’s away. You miss him so much more than you can say.

When We Are Apart is a sweet rhyming picture book to help families cope with separation while a parent is away. This book will help even your youngest child name their feelings, cope with their emotions, and navigate through them while being reassured that they are loved unconditionally. Based on debut author Becca Johnsey’s own experiences helping her children deal with missing their dad while travels with the Army Reserves. Becca hopes this book will be as impactful to other families as it has been for her own. Perfect for ages 2-5.

Format(s) for review: Paper Only

Review Genre: Children & Young Adult—Picture Book

Number of Pages: 32

Word Count: 249